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Writer's picturePaula Sampson Lawrence

How Coaching and Mentoring Can Help with Back-to-School Fears and Anxiety


As the calendar flips to the later months of summer, many students and parents feel a mixture of excitement and anxiety about the upcoming school year. While new beginnings can be thrilling, they can also trigger fears and uncertainties. This is where coaching and mentoring can play a transformative role.


Our founder and lead coach Paula Sampson Lawrence says, "I love running these coaching sessions. They really are personalised support systems designed to equip young people with the skills, confidence, and emotional resilience needed to navigate the back-to-school transition smoothly."


Understanding Back-to-School Anxiety


School girl looking sad
School girl looking sad

Back-to-school anxiety is more common than you might think. It can stem from a variety of sources including fear of the unknown, social pressures, academic challenges, or simply adjusting to a new routine. Symptoms can range from physical manifestations like stomachaches and headaches to emotional responses such as irritability, insomnia, and mood swings. It's essential to address these concerns proactively to ensure a successful and enjoyable school year.


The Power of Coaching and Mentoring


Child mentoring session
Child mentoring session


Coaching and mentoring aren't just for adults in the business world; they offer incredible benefits for young students too. Here’s how they can tackle back-to-school fears and anxiety:


1. Personalized Support and Goal Setting

Coaches and mentors offer one-on-one sessions tailored to the unique needs of each student. By understanding their specific anxieties and challenges, they can help set realistic and achievable goals. Whether it's mastering a subject, improving social skills, or boosting self-confidence, having a roadmap can significantly alleviate anxiety.


2. Building Emotional Resilience

Coaches use evidence-based strategies to teach stress management techniques such as mindfulness, deep breathing, and positive visualization. These tools empower students to manage their emotions effectively, making it easier to cope with school-related stressors.


3. Enhancing Social Skills

One of the most daunting aspects of returning to school is the social environment. Coaches and mentors can guide young people in developing strong social skills, from effective communication and active listening to making and maintaining friendships. These skills build a supportive social network, which is crucial for emotional well-being.


4. Boosting Self-Confidence

A key element of coaching is helping students recognize their strengths and achievements. By focusing on positive affirmations and past successes, mentors can boost a student's self-esteem. A confident student is more likely to approach the new school year with an optimistic and resilient mindset.


5. Creating a Supportive Environment

Coaching and mentoring provide a safe space for students to express their fears and concerns without judgment. This support can come from professional coaches, trained mentors, or even peer-to-peer programs. Knowing they have someone to turn to can make a world of difference in alleviating anxiety.


What to Expect in back to school Coaching Sessions


Emotional Support: A safe and understanding space where your child can express feelings, fears, and hopes about the upcoming academic year.


Social Skills Enhancement: Personalized activities aimed at boosting communication, making new friends, and building positive relationships with peers and teachers.


Mindfulness & Well-being: Techniques to manage stress, anxiety, and to promote mental health and overall well-being, ensuring your child feels grounded and capable.


Confidence Boost: Tailored strategies to enhance self-esteem and foster a growth mindset, empowering your child to embrace challenges and enjoy learning.


Personalized Approach: Each session is uniquely designed to address the specific needs, experiences, and goals of your child, making sure they are prepared for their individual journey.


Workbook and Resources

Participants will be provided with a workbook filled with practical exercises, reflections, and resources to support continued growth outside of sessions.


Parents' Role in the Coaching Process

Parents play a pivotal role in supporting their child's journey. Cooperation between parents and coaches can create a cohesive support system. Regular updates from the coach can keep parents informed about their child's progress and provide actionable steps to reinforce learning at home.


Conclusion: A Fresh Start with Confidence and Joy

Back-to-school fears and anxiety can be overwhelming, but they don’t have to dictate a student’s experience. Coaching and mentoring offer a structured, supportive, and personalized approach to help young people navigate these challenges with confidence and resilience. As students step into the new school year, they can do so with a toolkit of skills, a strong support network, and a renewed sense of self-assurance.

Investing in coaching and mentoring for your child could be the key to unlocking a successful, fulfilling, and enjoyable school year.




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